tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-655962722302095847.post8286303612807160606..comments2024-03-27T20:20:54.505+01:00Comments on Epiphany: Why Girls don’t get Mild Autism and Why Alpha Females may have Kids with Autism.Peter Lloyd-Thomashttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10173383229834614994noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-655962722302095847.post-59949853455641124922018-08-24T12:27:41.055+02:002018-08-24T12:27:41.055+02:00For more playfulness, I can recommend the Early St...For more playfulness, I can recommend the Early Start Denver Model, or something very simple as Reciprocal Imitation Training.<br /><br />/LingAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-655962722302095847.post-73714330028277927542018-08-24T10:40:09.694+02:002018-08-24T10:40:09.694+02:00un tio you, and psychologists you are referring to...un tio you, and psychologists you are referring to, are forgetting the most crucial part, wherein autism in the child will often be the CAUSE, not the consequence, of such parenting that is not playful or emphatic.<br /><br />Having a child that is tantruming, hitting, screaming, not interacting, not responding to you in any way etc, will cause PTSD stress in parents, which in turn causes the parent to lose the will or the ability to play and interact with that child in the same manner they would in a neurotypical child. <br /><br />I am not saying this is good and one shoudn't try to overcome, but this does happen a lot. So when looking into autism families and observing the interaction do not confuse the chicken with the egg. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-655962722302095847.post-77918230082063053772018-08-24T00:09:39.272+02:002018-08-24T00:09:39.272+02:00Please let s talk about everything freely.Please let s talk about everything freely.Un tíohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08747727512108171411noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-655962722302095847.post-49953847262380845962018-08-24T00:08:13.607+02:002018-08-24T00:08:13.607+02:00That s right.
Ling this blog is mainly pharmaceut...That s right.<br /><br />Ling this blog is mainly pharmaceutical and is good and I agree, but it is not bad to see sometimes other things and nobody knows from where the help for my daughter will come. And I remember to you that even Peter, author of the blog, thinks psychological treatment is absolutely necessary (only that he focuses on ABA approach).<br /><br />And Tatiana explained basically what I was saying. The parenting is a factor more, in fact could be a huge factor.Un tíohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08747727512108171411noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-655962722302095847.post-15202629275907839022018-08-23T14:02:09.067+02:002018-08-23T14:02:09.067+02:00for what its worth i think he was trying to point ...for what its worth i think he was trying to point out that if autism in children is related to genetic properties in adults that make them less emphatic and playful emotional parents, the children are faced with an additional factor making their autism worse in appearance due to lack of emphatic playful parenting. Tatjanahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00856934973958247860noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-655962722302095847.post-43636274437397363722018-08-23T10:09:31.750+02:002018-08-23T10:09:31.750+02:00un tio, I think if you want to talk about the psyc...un tio, I think if you want to talk about the psychoanalytic side of autism you might have picked the wrong blog. Focusing on things that we can't change afterwards - like some children in the world being neglected, abused or abandoned - is probably not going to help your daughter. <br />Psychologists haven't solved the autism enigma for 50 years, while it actually looks like geneticists and medical researchers are having much more success recently. <br />Just my point of view.<br /><br />/LingAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-655962722302095847.post-26427701139669977042018-08-22T19:12:17.272+02:002018-08-22T19:12:17.272+02:00Hello Peter,
You didn't understand me. I was ...Hello Peter,<br /><br />You didn't understand me. I was talking after the birth, and the mother role there.<br /><br />Imagine a bad mother, an alpha mother, working a lot, but barely playing or talking to the child. If the child has any problem in the brain this will go worse (or perhaps even if it was a completely healthy baby!). The father is not very important but could supply someway a bad mother, but if both mother and father don t care properly the child, if they don t talk to the baby, don t do anything well but food, you can imagine this could have consequences.<br /><br />And as I read elsewhere, autism makes itself. If the baby has a mother who is someway absent he will suffer more and will recover less than a baby with a careful, lovely and concerned mother.<br /><br />I expect is clear now what I say. Unfortunately I m afraid this is quite common.<br /><br />RegardsUn tíohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08747727512108171411noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-655962722302095847.post-2389566740859268832018-08-22T17:12:57.376+02:002018-08-22T17:12:57.376+02:00un tio, other than contributing half the DNA, the ...un tio, other than contributing half the DNA, the father does not have much of a role. The mother's role is much more important. Prior to birth and in the first months thereafter the baby does not have an effective blood brain barrier and so many things can cross from the mother and enter the developing brain. Any stress, inflammation, drugs etc in the the mother will also affect the developing brain.<br /><br />Blame is not a helpful word, but people should realise that a developing brain is more vulnerable to insults than they thought. Future allergy, asthma, ADHD, autism and many other things are greatly effected by what happens (or does not happen) during pregnancy. Peter Lloyd-Thomashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10173383229834614994noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-655962722302095847.post-5619888415305908972018-08-22T02:37:32.399+02:002018-08-22T02:37:32.399+02:00Hello, very great post. Let me add other sight: th...Hello, very great post. Let me add other sight: the alpha woman spends few time and with less quality with her children, so the odds to become autistic (or for not recovering from the brain damage) increases. This is some way the psychoanalysis sight, which shouldn't be forgotten. In fact the "discoverer" of the autism blamed the mother (and also the father who had a "good and exigent" job).Un tíohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08747727512108171411noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-655962722302095847.post-18618396118012283612016-09-08T23:40:52.962+02:002016-09-08T23:40:52.962+02:00Hello Peter,
This was an interesting post not in ...Hello Peter, <br />This was an interesting post not in the least because I had been thinking on the same lines for quite some time..maternal temperament linked to not only autism but other problems as well, occupying the arena of fertility, child birth and developmental issues with the child.<br />Feminism, and not the soft feminism that females like me follow, but the real deal, the Simone de beauvoir, Germaine Greer one, that my mother's generation internalized where feminity was almost an embarrassment and low class, pressurized the following generation of female offsprings to pursue academic excellence and financial independence putting aside their biological identities. This was a shame and totally anti feminism..a foolish attempt at gender transformation.<br /><br />I pursued an unconventional career, freewheeling, enjoying my doctoral and post doctoral research that involved field work in areas in Central Himalaya. I boasted about my fitness, got married late, conceived in the first try and walked leisurely into the gynaes clinic good two months after conception. Subclinical hypothyroidism but uneventful pregnancy. Mild elevation in liver enzymes in the last trimester led to an induced vaginal delivery at 37 months and in two days time I was up and about. So what went wrong? <br /><br />I do feel that it's not only a case of alpha female as you call it, but an entire imbalance of hormones in the female body, produced by stress associated with ambition, higher and wider thought process and competitiveness. It's so unfair and so politically incorrect but I do think there is a trade-off between acquiring a 'male' kind of intellect and thought process and reproductive fitness/health of progeny. And it's got nothing to do with nurturence.<br /><br /><br /><br />Kritikanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-655962722302095847.post-82613331685288046692016-07-04T16:37:17.558+02:002016-07-04T16:37:17.558+02:00Hello,
revisiting an old post here, very interesti...Hello,<br />revisiting an old post here, very interesting. I am a web developer and I guess that suggests high testosterone. I definitely had high cortisol through both my pregnancies and had low progesterone--so much so that the fertility clinic insisted that I supplement progesterone during the first trimesters. (both kids were conceived drug free via IUI)<br /><br />my first child, a son was born on the spectrum (no "second wave" as such)-- confounding factors were that I had him induced at 39 weeks because of pre-ecclampsia and he was put on intravenous antibiotics for 3 days after delivery because of a low fever. He is on the high end of the spectrum. We only got the diagnosis at age seven a few weeks ago (which has led me to your blog-- I'm in the shock/research everything phase). My second child, a daughter is very neurotypical and extremely bright— a 5 year old reading at a 10 year old level and socially brilliant, consistently cheerful, etc.<br /><br />So there's an n=1 for you but it does support this theory. Perhaps the progesterone supplementation kept my son at the higher end, who knows.<br /><br />My question is progesterone related-- DS has a double mutation on the MAO A R297R gene (rs6323 T) that puts him in the 1% of white males with the "warrior gene". He has an acute temper, a tendency to blind rages actually. -one of the behaviors that lead to the ADS diagnosis. I've read that his permutation of this gene is associated with very low MAO A and subsequent "pooling" and rapid dropping off of neurotransmitters. Given this and your speculation that progesterone may be preventative, would you suggest that I consider trialing progesterone for my son? (Progesterone is said to increase MAO A). I know you're not a doctor, just interested in what you might do if your were in my situation.<br /><br />Thanks as always for such an amazing blog!<br /><br />Andi<br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-655962722302095847.post-17370831629082992812015-06-30T03:56:24.378+02:002015-06-30T03:56:24.378+02:00This is why I think when kids have autism, the par...This is why I think when kids have autism, the parents have it too to some degree.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-655962722302095847.post-80466708577616150572015-04-22T21:42:51.728+02:002015-04-22T21:42:51.728+02:00With regard to specific terminology, we seem to be...With regard to specific terminology, we seem to be moving away from having sub groups of autism. The DSM 5 & ICD 10 have dropped the term "Aspergers" which used to refer to higher functioning individuals, as being too non-specific. Everyone is classified now as Autism Spectrum Disorder, with no way of indicating where on the spectrum the individual might be.<br /><br />I guess you are referring to those at the more severe end of the spectrum, but yes, in terms of treatment options you are looking at very different desired outcomes for children like your son compared to the children I am seeing who are in mainstream education & have reasonable language. However quite a few of these have seizures, & self harm is very common.<br /><br />Not an easy condition to categorise.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-655962722302095847.post-70383429767564007502015-04-22T21:10:37.314+02:002015-04-22T21:10:37.314+02:00These are very mild kinds of autism, I am mainly w...These are very mild kinds of autism, I am mainly writting about the kind with limited speech and later self injury, not to mentioned seizures and MR. I think we need several new terms to fairly represent each group.Peter Lloyd-Thomashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10173383229834614994noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-655962722302095847.post-75483932493197467212015-04-22T20:22:57.199+02:002015-04-22T20:22:57.199+02:00I think you may be wrong about girls not having au...I think you may be wrong about girls not having autism - in my practice as a paediatrician in the UK - they are coming oiut of the woodwork! Many of those I see are highly imntelligent & functioning in mainstream school. Much more difficult to diagnose, often hold themselves together at school because they are much more capable of copying their peers & adopting a "superficial" social persona. Underneath they are highly anxious, often display very difficult behaviour at home as a result of holding it together at school, so only the family see the underlying autism.<br /><br />It is quite commonly understood now that it is this population who will go on to have anorexia in their teens, & we know what an epidemic that is!.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-655962722302095847.post-72903385021514659032014-08-09T14:27:30.829+02:002014-08-09T14:27:30.829+02:00Thank you very much! You really gave me hope. I...Thank you very much! You really gave me hope. I'm only 14, I just realized that there are so many other girls in my age group who have it much worse... One of my best friends has severe Asperger's and she's 19, I pray for her every day. However, she's been making very good progress.<br /><br />Moving on, I found 2 interesting things to add to your research: When I was innocently googling stuff, I saw a study which suggests that alpha women have an 80% chance of having a son! My mom's the only exception to this though- while she is a beta, keep in mind that my dad had a lot of boys on his side of the family.<br /><br />The other thing I found was another study which said that taking chlorophyllin before having kids protects your genes from random mutations. It seems interesting, because I've never heard of chlorophyllin before... I hope I helped and I wish you the best of luck in your research :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-655962722302095847.post-84185040557633260772014-08-09T10:48:26.505+02:002014-08-09T10:48:26.505+02:00There are many things known to increase the risk o...There are many things known to increase the risk of having a child with ASD, but many of them are under your control. You cannot change your genes, but there are steps you can take.<br /><br />Reduce oxidative stress prior and during pregnancy. This would mean avoiding emotional stress (stop working, particularly if you have a stressful job), environmental stress (if you live near power lines, transmitters, busy roads, air pollution etc). If you are able to measure GSH, then you would know the state of oxidative stress (or not) your body is in. If in oxidative stress, this can be normalized with NAC. <br /><br />Have kids while you and your partner are young. Copy-number variations (CNVs) are a type of genetic fault causes by copying errors, this might account for younger parents having a lower autism risk.<br /><br />Hormonal imbalances before and during pregnancy , in particular thyroid and I believe the male/female hormones (progesterone, testosterone etc) may increase risk. All of these are measurable and treatable. <br /><br />Also, very many things can cause “autistic behaviors”, so the fact that over the years you made such a good recovery might suggest that you do not have big genetic “dysfunctions”. Therefore your kids cannot inherit them. <br /><br />It is your choice, but if you take all the possible precautions, you are most likely to have a neurotypical child. Even doing nothing, the odds are still in favor of NT, but it clearly makes sense to shift the odds as far as possible to NT.<br /><br />Also, don't worry about it, because it is exactly that kind of emotional stress that leads to oxidative stress in your body. I know this is easier said than done.<br /><br />I hope that helps.<br />Peter Lloyd-Thomashttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10173383229834614994noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-655962722302095847.post-6245149870823768982014-08-09T03:07:39.857+02:002014-08-09T03:07:39.857+02:00Couldn't agree more! Like they say, opposites ...Couldn't agree more! Like they say, opposites attract... And they should. :) But I'm just wondering... What about the girls and women who were male-brained/alpha as kids but became female-brained/beta when they got older?<br /><br />I'm scared to admit this... But I had classic autism when I was a little girl. Everyone I know, even experts say that I'm neurotypical now though. Oddly enough, scientists just found out that 1 in 10 autistic children become neurotypical. As for the "cause" of my autism, although my mom was a beta, we lived in a very toxic city when she was pregnant with me, she was very stressed, she had hypothyroid, she smoked (NOT WHILE PREGNANT, but before she got pregnant with me), and I was born by C-section.<br /><br />ANYWAY, I also used to be what you describe as an "alpha female" as a kid. I did have some beta-qualities, but I was mainly alpha because I tried to copy my dad and brothers. Because I lived in a family with mostly males, I thought it was normal for a girl to act boyish. They're strong systemisers and they wanted me to be one too. But my mom wasn't happy about this. As I said, she's a true beta and she didn't want me to become an alpha. So after she got laid off from her job for a little bit, I got to spend time with her. At first, I thought she was kinda boring, but I learned so much more from her. She taught me to be calm and embrace my femininity. I developed a more female brain because of her. I took this one quiz and it said that I was 98% beta and only 11% alpha. But then again, it's human nature- people change all the time.<br /><br />Now here's my question, is my autism genetic and would I have autistic children? This worries me a lot. I went for a walk in town with my mom today and we saw a bunch of kids playing at the park. I smiled because they were so happy and it made me happy that they were having fun. But then that smile faded. I realized that my future children might not be able to live a normal life... What should I do? What would you recommend? Please help... :(Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com